The initial meeting is often used to establish a personal connection and a relationship of trust. In-person meetings are preferred, rather than telephone or Skype appointments. During discussions, it is common to have small talk before proceeding to business matters.Before meetings, you should research the current differences across populations in South Africa to then be able to show you have adapted your behaviour, ideas and policies to respect the local conditions. Fancy slide presentations are not recommended, but it is advised to include good and self-explanatory visuals during your talk. Generally, South Africans look for a win-win situation; thus confrontations, pushy behaviour and aggressive negotiation and selling techniques should be avoided. Business proposals and requests should be realistic in order to avoid excessive haggling.
Communication will differ depending on who you are dealing with. Most of the time, English-speaking South Africans look for maintaining harmonious business relationships, will be diplomatic and will make their point in an indirect way. Nevertheless, Afrikaners are more direct communicators. Silence is often a sign that the situation has become uncomfortable. Humour is generally used to ease tensions. During discussions, it is considered impolite to interrupt someone who speaks, as well as showing impatience towards the decision-making process. After a meeting, it is advised to send a letter summarising what has been decided and what the next steps will be.
Business lunches and dinners are very common in South Africa, as well as business breakfasts. Business meals do not take place to conduct negotiations but rather to talk business in a more casual setting.